Unfortunately, I’m a very needy girlfriend but not like “buy me this”, “get me that” type. It’s more like hold me, kiss me, cuddle me, call me, give me all of your attention
I love a man who has his shit together. Confident, intelligent, capable, dominant & completely in control IRL. The kind of man people naturally listen to. Then he gets around me and turns into the neediest, simpiest little thing, hanging on every word I say & desperate to make me happy.
That’s the part that gets me. He isn’t submissive because he can’t lead or make his own decisions. He does that all day. He submits because I’m the one woman he wants to hand that control to.
All that competence, confidence and authority, and I still make him melt. So fucking hot.
Can't be a Dom if you haven't got you ego in check.
Dom isn't about proving youre superior
It's about emotional control, empathy, patience and knowing your sub
Huge difference in leading "because i say so" and "I'm going to lead with intention and purpose"
Ego seek validation
Let’s talk about the Submissive. 🖤
And as a sub myself, baby… I have THOUGHTS. 😂
People hear “submissive” and think weak, passive, or powerless.
Baby, where?
For me, submission is service.
It’s respect.
It’s devotion.
It’s choosing to give to my partner because giving to them brings me joy.
And sometimes?
I just want to turn my brain OFF.
I want somebody else to drive. 1/4