I told my mom I wasn't attracted to a guy who liked me and she told me to give him a chance. I said guys don't give girls they're not attracted to a chance so why should I do it? Silence at the dinner table
"not all men!" but all women are bad drivers and all women are moody and all women are emotional and all women get to be painted with the same brush but don't you dare generalise men that's unfair!!!!!!!!
Now I understand why women are advised to get married and have children before the age of 25. Because after that the brain starts working and this decision doesn’t seem so adequate.
Men are lonely because they're insufferable to be around. For one of the the first times in history. women don't need men for any material security.
While there is still social pressure, women are only seeking romantic relationships with men for the emotional enrichment those men would bring to their lives. We no longer need men, they are competing solely on the basis of their character, and they're failing. That is their fault. Not women's and not feminisms.
The dirtiest manipulation during a breakup is when a person has already decided to leave you, but they are too much of a coward to take the first step. They are afraid to make that decision and take responsibility, so they intentionally create unbearable conditions for you. They provoke you into arguments, emotional instability, and push you to the point where the idea of ending the relationship comes from you. So that you are the one who does it, and the blame for destroying the relationship falls on you.
my FRIEND always. ALWAYS. splits bills UNFAIRLY. we ordered food. i got fries for 430. she got a full MEAL for 2800. bill came. she said ‘let’s split’. SPLIT? EQUALLY? i ate FRIES. you ate STEAK. told her let’s pay separately. she said ‘that’s so COMPLICATED yaar’. COMPLICATED? basic MATH? pulled out my phone. calculated EXACTLY what i owe. she got UPSET. said i’m being CHEAP. CHEAP? i’m being FAIR. you want ME to subsidize YOUR meal. that’s THEFT. paid my amount. EXACTLY. she’s been cold to me since. posting passive aggressive stories. ‘some people are so CALCULATIVE’. YES. i CALCULATE. unfollowed her. she NOTICED. texted me. i left her on READ. friendship ended. over ACCURATE bill splitting. and i’m at PEACE.