7 years of being married and I still can't believe I've got a real wife that actually loves me and is there every day and does every little stupid thing with me and kisses me goodnight every single day. How AWESOME is that?!? This marriage thing is π―π!
Turns out that "gifted, high-achieving child" who finished assignments in 10 minutes, read entire books under the blanket with a flashlight, and was praised for being mature... was actually just an undiagnosed ADHD girlie operating on pure, unregulated hyperfocus.
A neurodivergent person with a 1pm appointment cannot do anything before the appointment. cannot start a task. cannot eat. cannot focus. cannot relax. the entire morning belongs to the 1pm. and we will still be 4 minutes late.