I survived a lot of friendships with women who had hidden animosity towards me when all I wanted was sisterhood ! So yes, I’m very selective now 🤷🏾♀️!
I’m strict about my boundaries because every time I wasn’t, I paid the price. I let the wrong people get too close, I gave too many chances, and I ignored what I already knew. All it ever did was drain me. That’s a lesson I refuse to learn again.