26 weapons grade parenting tips:
1/ Give them a "heads up," 5 minutes until bedtime, 10 minutes before leaving the playground
2/ Look at the world more through their eyes
3/ Don’t discipline like an angry madman. Stay calm and firm, model how you want THEM to resolve conflict
4/ Let them argue their case respectfully. Teaches negotiation and critical thinking
5/ Skip the long lectures
6/ Use natural consequences: forgot homework? Let them explain it to the teacher. Forgot their lunch? They'll figure it out
7/ Be consistent and follow through. "We are leaving the playground if you don't stop..."
8/ Make "How can I help?" part of YOUR vocabulary. It builds reliability
9/ Share your unseen efforts: hustling for work, hitting the gym. Actions speak louder than words but when they can’t see it, TELL THEM
10/ Teach accountability by modeling it yourself: “I was wrong. sorry”
11/ Create family traditions like weekly movie nights, Sunday pancakes, whatever works
12/ More game nights
13/ Take an interest in their interests: video games, books, sports... do it with them.
14/ Hike together. Nature slows time and generates gratitude
15/ Build something. LEGO, puzzles, a fort, the Amazon delivery box
16/ Teach them skills: tie knots, start a fire, read a map
17/ Introduce chess or checkers. Start early
18/ Let them plan a family outing or navigate you there (they can get you through the airport)
19/ Always greet your wife with love. That moment sets the tone for the family
20/ Share some challenges (age appropriate)
21/ Respect their privacy. Knock before entering their room
22/ Teach the value of money early: "wants vs. needs," compounding, saving, etc
23/ Let them see you sweat
24/ Teach them to cook. Start small: eggs, pancakes, cookies. Embrace the mess
25/ No screens at meals ever
26/ Prioritize movement as a UNIT: family walks, workouts, hikes, dance-offs- whatever gets the everyone in synch
Normalize pursuing the highest version of yourself in all domains of life. Run fast. Lift heavy. Eat right. Run up the business. Get your mind in order. Treat strangers like friends, and friends like family. Life is short. Pursue your potential. Inspire others.