@JessIsUrGoddess@BambyieWolff@missmommymolly Fwiw, I can only speak from the perspective of subs. The subs on reddit could be awful and might drive dommes towards twitter. I know many of the subs on twitter are crap.
I just don't really agree with the way some dommes on twitter often seem to mock the ones on reddit.
@imeowchii@missmommymolly Obviously I'm generalising the differences between twitter findom and reddit findom but I do think there's usually differences between the two. There's definitely exceptions though.
Some dommes on twitter have noticed it too but they mock reddit dommes for the differences.
@missmommymolly@BambyieWolff I think you're ignoring what I actually said and pretending I'm saying dommes should do things for free. I didn't.
Reddit dommes are often mocked on twitter for 'babying' subs but they all want sends as well. They're just not as focused on money as most twitter dommes.
@BambyieWolff@missmommymolly The dommes on reddit are typically more interested in the domme part than the fin part while twitter dommes typically just find it a quick way of making money. It's not a surprise twitter dommes are skeptical of anything that isn't about money.
Ok serious talk for a second.
And this post is both for any dommes (new or old, big or small) or subbie boys who have the same false assumptions.
I’m having a discussion with one of my boys who was asking on average how many tributes I get a day. He was under the assumption, as I’m sure many of you are, that bc I have a relatively “big” account, that I’m rolling in new toys and tributes on a daily basis.
Now, I am not one to ever lie about my sends. I don’t understand the point, and honestly, I don’t need to.
So I told him I do not receive tribute from new toys every day.
In fact, from my personal experience, I find that most of my sends come from boys who I’ve built long standing dynamics with, who perpetually deactivate and reactivate, and/or from my streaming/clips.
I receive tribute randomly, inconsistently, and less often than any other form of send.
And honestly there are many reasons for this.
1) all the shy or scared boys who have the same mindset assume us dommes are already being showered in tribute daily and that their sends will get lost in the mayhem. Which is false. Sending tribute properly actually gives an amazing first impression and makes me very intrigued.
2) boys who have smaller budgets don’t bother tributing bc they feel they “can’t keep up” or “can’t give enough”. When in reality, even the big sends are never enough. That’s part of the fun, the fact that I will always be greedy for more. But don’t you DARE think that those smaller sends don’t add up. That they don’t still build my empire and help me live a soft princess life.
The attraction comes from the boy sacrificing what he can just for my happiness and attention.
3) bigger accounts actually end up scaring off more new toys bc they have all the above assumptions and so the larger an account gets, it’s common for less new toys have the courage to approach.
So maybe stop assuming you know what’s happening and actually approach dommes based off of genuine interest. We are real people you know, you might be surprised by what could happen when you finally make that decision to tribute.
Pussy is crucial for controlling men’s minds.
Whether you want to admit it or not, your path begins there and continues throughout your life in service to it, one way or another. And no matter how much you try to run from it, you always end up returning to the beginning.