i really dislike when someone expresses to their partner how their partners actions hurt their feelings and that partner takes space from them in a manipulative way as a means to condition them to never stand up for themselves again.
Visited a family who have been living in temporary accommodation in Newham since 2018.
The family of 7 all sleep in one room on blow-up beds and sofas because black mould has infested every single room upstairs and is terrifying their kids, who think their house is cursed.
I’ve never heard a person say why they’re racist…
Or fatphobic..
I’ve never heard a reason why someone is transphobic..
I think if we knew ‘why’ these people felt this way there would way less support for these ideals.
Because the ‘why’ is more insidious than we realize.