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[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Also, why are you worried about the men in my life? Sounds like you’re answering your own question as far as gay, they seem to be top of mind for you.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa You can’t run every experience through your own. Empathy is a whole ass word.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa There’s a difference between engaging in lesbian sex and watching it. Seeing someone interact with your parts in a sensual & safe way that can also be gratifying is amazing. Women have been taught to their bodies are dirty, gross, incredibly sexual, why would we feel comfortable.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Because the premise is not on the same basis, lol, men and women have a different relationship to sex lol

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[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Although men also carry sexual shame, they’re encouraged to partake in it, to know about it from a young age to make jokes about it., So of course, as they have been taught that they’re the main characters they’re gonna watch themselves dominate a woman, no need for trepidation

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Like I said, there’s different motivations not every woman has had a negative experience with sex, but because sex is so terrible a lot of women view watching lesbian sex, and the same option. We’ve been told that it’s dirty and wrong and you have to have a fair level of confidec

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Just hop right in and start watching men and women at least for women. I’ve heard it across a lot of women and the reason why I bring up gay porn is because there are entirely different motivations and backgrounds.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Are skirted by men who are selfish and having been taught or simply don’t care how sex is perceived by the woman. So yes, we’re sharing it with each other beforehand lol.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Also, I’m gonna have been taught to protect themselves when it comes to sensuality impurity, it would make sense that when we would first want to experience a sense of shared play before diving in lol. Men have to make it safe and a lot of mental lol a lot of women’s first times

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Also, men don’t experience the same danger with women. Are there toxic situations, absolutely, but the obvious threat isn’t there that oh my gosh, this person could hurt me. Women take responsibility for their fellow sister, whereas men have a sense of every man for himself.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa “*my step dad p*mmels me while mom is away” or “my first bbc”. I have looked into the sensuality and even then you have to find a star that does it well. because for most male stars, it is performative you have to actually like women to do it and women can tell the difference.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa So yes, is there romance on the app, sure but usually women are just looking for a safe space to experience pleasure and if you see how men have been positioned in society, it makes sense that they would find that with each other first, before dipping their toe into

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Porn is a shows the extreme of sex. But it’s not actually how sex operates, and yet because sex is so taboo and shamed we looked porn for answers. However, p*rn more often, exploits power dynamics, feeding into the freud of it all, the lack of attention or power.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Also, a lot of p*rn culture is r*pe culture. Women watch it and are supposed to be convinced that’s what we’re supposed to enjoy. Men watch it and it feeds their ego so of course it’s the way the world works right?

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Respectfully do the woman in your life, watch it? enjoy it? I think men and women look for different things in intimacy. There is crossover, but a lot of times it is us shifting through the selection that has been created for the brains of men & how they experience dopamine.

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@odabuu1 @Monna223Lisa Respectfully, gay men are inherently more physical in nature, we saw shows like heated rivalry have a lot of success among women because of the romance aspect. You ever watch a gay sex video?? Those men act like their last day on earth, they use language like “holes.”

[212 🤍 (21+) @briarblanche]

@Monna223Lisa What you’re trying to do in the act I would say is more indicative of orientation, what you feel a natural pull towards but pleasure is pleasure when it comes to both. When I see a woman, I think responsibility.