Date who you are compatible with. Money girl date money man, party girl date party man, gym girl date gym man, car girl date car man, freaky girl date freaky man, etc It makes life easier the more you have in common
A lot of women genuinely should not be looking for men to date so that question was actually hilarious. You don't go to therapy, you don't have other female friends, you don't have hobbies, you don't have any sensible long term goals, no career trajectory, no savings, you don't have your lives together, you don't have an identity and a sense of self, shit u don't have reliable transportation but its us who are incompatible and unprepared.
Someone once told me that fear of heights is not really the fear of falling but the fear that the irrational urge to throw yourself over the edge will become irresistible. True in my experience