This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to write.
The woman in these pictures is my mother. A single mother of four, She has been battling severe diabetes, and her condition has worsened to the point where it has caused a serious wound on her foot.
BABU RUFA RUFA BABU BOYE BOYE
Yana da matuƙar wahala ga namiji ya taso a wannan lokacin ya fara fafutuka tun daga karatu, neman aiki, ya fara sana'a, ya gina gida, yayi aure ba tare da yayi disvirgin ɗin kansa ba.
Wani daga ya kai shekara 27 zuwa 30, mafi yawa sukan ɗauki auren ma ba komai bane, musamman idan an wuce waɗannan shekarun saboda hidimar aure tayi musu nisa, ta yadda ba ma sa iya tunkararsa, tunda ga hanya mai sauƙi da za su more mazantakarsu duk sanda suka so.
Illar bata tsaya a iya maza ba, har ma mata. Idan tafiya tayi nisa sukan manta da cigaba da kare mutuncinsu saboda barazanar da suke fuskanta.
Lallai al'ummarmu ta ɗau wani layi da dole a sake lissafi.
Shawara garemu, idan ka samu dama kayi aure. Idan kika samu miji kiyi aure. Abun duniya abun banza ne.
ALLĀH yasa mu gama lafiya 🤲🏻
﴿رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا﴾
“Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes, and make us leaders for the righteous.”
— Al Qur’aan [25:74]
BRO CODES THAT IS FOREVER UNBREAKABLE
1. Don't rape anyone whether mature or minor
2. Two naked men are not supposed to be in the same room
3. A bro should know when his presence is no longer needed
4. Never make fun of your bro just to impress women
5. A bro must not pay for sex
6. Your bro's Ex is your Ex (forever off-limits)
7. Make money before you make love that would procreate a child
8. No matter how beautiful your bro's sister is, she is your sister too. If you must do anything, ask your friend first
9. When money finally comes, don't change the woman who stood, believed and supported you when you had nothing — upgrade her
10. Don't do husband duties while you are just a boyfriend
11. A bro never gives up, he rests and continues
12. Never ever smash your bro's current chick
13. A bro never uses Snapchat filters — a bro must look ugly and gallant
14. A bro never wears pink underwear
15. It is never acceptable for a bro to sleep with another bro’s ex (see rule 6 again)
16. Dress well, no matter the occasion
17. Never snitch on your bro to his girl, his mom, or the police
18. If your bro is too drunk to walk, you carry him home — no negotiation, no video evidence
19. Never borrow serious money from a bro and disappear — either pay back or disappear forever (but choose wisely)
20. When your bro is winning in life, celebrate louder than his own family. Real bros amplify success, they don’t compete with it.
When you scrap FAAC, you will see the economic power of the North
Then you will realise corn, soybeans and cows are as valuable as oil and gas
The North that should face lithium and silica are chasing “oil-producing” status
The Sarduana built a world-class economy based on groundnuts, tin, and columbite. Today, his legacy holders are chasing NNPC for contracts to import PMS
FAAC is fake life
Du'aa For When Your Biggest Obstacle Is Yourself
اللَّهُمَّ أَلْهِمْنِي رُشْدِي وَأَعِذْنِي مِنْ شَرِّ نَفْسِي
Ya Allah, inspire me with right guidance and protect me from the evil of my own self.
Transliteration: Allahumma alhimni rushdi wa a'idhni min sharri nafsi. (Sunan at-Tirmidhi)
A girl once asked her boyfriend:
“When are we getting married?”
The boyfriend responded:
“If you were me, would you marry you?”
She was visibly shocked and hurt.
The boyfriend continued:
“We’ve been together for over two years. Not once have you offered to cook or buy foodstuff for the house.
I work remotely. You work as a lecturer. Anytime you visit, there’s always food.
But you’ve never offered to cook or contribute money for food, even though you have a job.”
That incident eventually led to their breakup.
The following year, she got married to someone else, a fellow lecturer.
They may not be good enough for you, but they may be exactly what someone else wants to spend the rest of their life with.
Yes, this is an actual event that happened to my sister’s friend.