Sunday morning sobriety๐ซถbirthday yday(44๐คฏ)& spent the day out surrounded by alcohol,years gone by Iโd of been smashed by 4 & go head 1st in a full blown sesh that would carry on into today.Taken a long time but Iโm finally becoming at peace with the person I am & want to be โ๏ธ
Lessons learnt in 2024- I don't have to go above and beyond for others,don't always need to be the bigger person,don't have to fix what I didn't break,don't have to show up for those who don't show up for me and I donโt need to sacrifice my own happiness for someone elseโs#growth
I just want to enjoy life,I understand not everyone is gonna like you,not everyone is going to want to be your friend,youโll make mistakes but Iโm cool with that,as long as I can live with me,then thatโs alright,and thatโs all that matters ๐ฏโ๏ธ
Iโve spent the last 48 hours trying to find those responsible for breaking into my house and pinching our car,carrying all sorts on me.Iโm glad I didnโt because Iโd of robbed my family then of me for a long time potentially and for what?
I wish no harm or revenge on anyone,the world is already a bad enough place to be in,Im 44 next month,more time is behind me to whatโs in front & Iโve not got it to waste.Days turn into weeks,weeks to months,months to years & your back to where it all started except your not 16!
World Mental Health Day,one day a year for some people to think about,every day of the year for those of us who have suffered(and still suffering)from depression,anxiety,dark etc.
This is one of the best speeches Iโve ever heard ๐ฏ
https://t.co/8YO1jtik8U
Keep talking ๐
Never confuse people loving you for people using you
People pleasers suffer abuse from the very people they are trying to help
People pleasing is always giving people what they want while abandoning what you need
Be on your guard