i live in the south so the other night at a concert i went into the menโs room (i have only tried the womenโs room once at school and got reported), there was a drunk guy there screaming how i look like a bitch and to get the fuck out and he was gonna beat me. i cannot win.
The unfortunate truth is that many queer folk, especially the ones who deem themselves feminists, see trans women and perverted men. If a trans woman actually has to piss, many would rather trans women go into the "trans woman r*ping chamber" (the mens) rather than the safe one.