At some point, you’ll have to disappoint others to live a life that’s honest to you. People-pleasing will drain you, not save you. Set boundaries. Choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person.
You can be very popular at your workplace, but trust me, if you get fired today, most of your colleagues won’t call you after a week. So, avoid gossiping and oversharing. Do your job. Get paid. Go home. Keep your private life to yourself.