You cannot get mad at your significant other for expressing what upsets them. You can’t. Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. They’re upset for a reason. Genuine consideration is key.
I don’t want to be buried with a single organ in my body, give them to a child that’s spent more of their life in the hospital than outside exploring or a teenager who can’t see or a mother who’s heart won’t pump on its own. I will no longer need them, give them to some1 who does