a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
i’m not letting nobody treat me like they don’t care bout me this year .. u gone stand on everything you do or say to me, imma good person inside & out .. ian letting nobody play with me again & that go for anybody .. family , friends , whoever anybody moving wrong with me you gotta go.
unfortunately, people are not always going to be brave enough to tell u they're no longer vibing with u. sometimes, u just have to read the energies, and leave the table. take some initiative. let go of the guilt of letting go. have the courage to walk alone cus all u got is you.
unfortunately, i am my family’s most independent and distant child so i will sit here by myself, act like i don’t need anyone, and fight every single problem by myself
As independent as I am, I love to be babied. Acts of service are how I feel loved. I don't care about money. Just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, I know you really see me.