You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested.
It’s actually crazy when you’re in tune spiritually. You just be getting these weird feelings about ppl , they start doing things that trigger you & everything in you just tells you to step back & as soon as you do, things start to unfold … you stay silent long enough they’ll expose the truth themselves. And all you have to do is thank God for giving you the gift of discernment. It’s not a L baby , you WON cause God revealed to you what needed to be revealed so you can move on gracefully🤍
timing requires discernment and intuition. timing is a spiritual gift. being in alignment with that gift tells you exactly when to leave, when to stay, when to act, when to move, when to be still, when to wait.
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.🤍
In this vibrational universe, you don't meet people by accident, you meet them by your vibration. Heal so you start raising your vibration and stop meeting people who resonate with the unhealed parts of you to repeat and reinforce the toxic relationship patterns from your trauma.
Intimacy is about safety. The peace you feel in someone's presence. The ease in their voice when you disagree. Someone's attentiveness when you are struggling. Their language when they speak about you, someone's curiosity to learn you and the surrender when it comes to you.
Stop sitting on skills and talents that could change your life. You have something so special within you, it could alter lives. But you keep getting distracted and coming up with reasons why it's not time. When the reality is, it's always been your time. Now get to manifesting.
For years I was an “over-understander”
I tried to understand where everyone was coming from. Made excuses. Told myself things would change. I thought it was my responsibility to accommodate.
In reality, my responsibility is: to take care of me.
Not to decode other people’s behavior.