God definitely had his plans and ended up blessing me with the most precious gift I could ever ask for. Thankful for his plans even if I couldn’t see them at the time
nobody warned me that having a breastfed baby meant everybody is going to assume nursing is the only solution to every issue he could ever have and I am the only one who could ever comfort him 🙃
I’m adopted. When I met my birthmom I asked if she’d considered abortion. She said yes. And I was glad, because it meant she had a choice. My birth wasn’t her death. I’m here because she wanted me to be here. That means the world to me. Women should have the choice.
I don’t want an IUD, arm implant, depo shot, or pill because they all make me want to unalive myself. Men really need to stop telling women who are begging for a shred of bodily autonomy to “just get on birth control” like that shit doesn’t wreak absolute fucking havoc on us.
I will no longer be booking “patriotic sleeve” tattoos. I don’t care what anyone gets tattooed,but I’m not doing art in homage of a country that cares more about controlling my daughters autonomy than they do if she makes it home from school safely .
I said to my wife "Do you think anyone will commit suicide because they could not get an abortion?"
She instantly replied "yes."
Then she added "there will be all those boyfriends and husbands that murder them because they couldn't get one too" and that shook my fucking world.
Truly why are people concerned about what others do with their lives? Like do you live my life every day? No? Ok so why does what I have or what I do matter to anyone BESIDES ME LOL
As someone who has had a child, who I do love very much, I can 100% say pregnancy/birth was personally one of the most traumatic events in my life. It was also very violent for my body. My daughter is almost two and I’m still struggling with postpartum issues.