Betty

Retired school counselor in Western North Carolina

[Betty @bross525]

Senior Walk at Glenwood Elementary! Proud of these kids.

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@CFranklin27 @unccharlotte Happy Birthday Roby!

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We had a great time at Girl Talk!

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Loved seeing the great things happening at Glenwood Elementary. ⁦@McDowell590⁩

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Fun afternoon with families at church.

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Fun evening teaching a painting class to our widows at church.

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Waiting for the Toby Mac concert to begin.

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Grace Community Church is ready for our Night to Shine guests! ⁦@tebowfoundation⁩

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Enjoyed Christmas breakfast at Glenwood today. Good to go back and see former colleagues. ⁦@McDowell590⁩

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Fun weekend at our annual Pierogi Fest with friends.

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This !

[𝐁𝐫𝐚𝐝 𝐉𝐨𝐡𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐧 @DrBradJohnson]

Australia just voted to ban social media for kids under 16.
And honestly… this might be the most important education story of the year.
They didn’t do it to be strict.
They did it because the evidence keeps piling up:
• higher anxiety and depression
• increased loneliness even though kids seem “more connected”
• attention and focus problems
• sleep disruption from doom scrolling and blue light
• body image struggles, especially for girls
• more bullying and social comparison
• rising self harm risks as time online increases
• kids losing real world coping skills because everything is filtered and performative
• addiction like patterns… dopamine hits, withdrawal, compulsive use
For years, society raised age limits on things that harm kids:
alcohol, cigarettes, driving, tanning beds in most states, even energy drinks in some countries.
Now we’re staring at a new question:
Should the digital world have age limits too?
As educators and parents… what do you think?

[Betty @bross525]

This is so true!

[𝐁𝐫𝐚𝐝 𝐉𝐨𝐡𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐧 @DrBradJohnson]

We have created a system where covering content matters more than understanding it.
And the cost is enormous.
Teachers are not rushing because they want to.
They rush because the curriculum is packed so tightly that every minute is spoken for.
There is barely time to finish the lesson, much less pause for questions.
The irony is that questions are where real learning happens.
A question is the mind trying to make meaning.
It is the moment a student reaches beyond memorizing and starts thinking.
But when the day is so full that students cannot even ask questions, they never learn how to question.
And if they never learn how to question, they never learn how to think.
Yet people still say things like, “If the standards are the same, classrooms should look the same.”
That idea sounds organized on paper, but it reveals a misunderstanding of learning.
Two classes can have the same standards and be in completely different places.
Because no two groups of students are the same.
No two teachers are the same.
No two paths to understanding are the same.
Standards describe the goals.
They do not dictate the route.
They do not require identical classrooms moving at identical speeds.
Learning is not a race to stay on pace.
Learning is the space to wonder, question, explore, and connect ideas.
When we remove that space, we are not raising rigor.
We are removing thinking.
If we truly want deeper learning, we need less racing and more room.
Less pressure to cover content and more permission to understand it.
Less focus on identical pacing and more focus on actual growth.
Because students do not grow from being pushed through material.
They grow from being allowed to think.

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Great time visiting family. Enjoyed visiting so much forgot to take pics !

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Enjoyed lunch with some of my Kappa friends. We made Christmas boxes for Meals on Wheels.

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Had fun with our families with Table Talk activities and games at our Hope 29:11 Parent Night.

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Great night at Grace Community Church with our PreK- 5th graders. We packed over 500 boxes for Operation Christmas Child.

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Ready for Hope 29:11 paint night!

[Daniel Buck, “Youngest Old Man in Ed Reform” @MrDanielBuck]

Schools talk a good game about "Trauma-informed pedagogy," which usually means letting the kid from a rough background tear a room apart

But for every traumatized kid who acts out there's another who's suffering silently, who wants and deserves an orderly classroom