marry the one that pursues & prays for you. marry the one that calls you back. marry the one that checks on your mental health. marry the one that would rather lose the argument than you. marry the one who puts your friendship + relationship + God before the image & romantics.
wait for the one who makes you smile on monday, grabs coffee with you on tuesday, can relax at home with you on friday, brunches hard with you on saturday, goes to church by your side on sunday, and makes you fall in love with life every day.