If someone has an issue with you but tells everyone except you, it’s not a problem. It’s a performance. They don’t want resolution, they want attention. People who want peace speak directly. People who want validation speak loudly to the crowd.
Eyy mina umthandazo uyangisebenzela bandla. I may not get answers ngendlela engifisa ngayo or ngesikhathi sami but ekugcine ngiyazithola iympendulo and im grateful 🥺♥️
make peace with the reality that some connections are seasonal regardless of how you dress them up, accept that some people are temporary regardless of how permanent their impression feels, release energy that wants to leave if your growth is pushing you in different directions.