“If you didn’t want your photo digitally altered and turned into sexual content you shouldn’t have posted it online” is the social media version of “if you didn’t want to be raped you shouldn’t have worn a short skirt.”
Women are not responsible for the predatory actions of men.
A large number of men are not emotionally unavailable because they ‘don’t know how to feel’. They’re emotionally avoidant because emotional accountability would require THEM to change behaviors that currently benefit THEM.
MY DEAREST MOOTS I NEED GOOD BOOK RECS RIGHT NOW BEFORE I SLIP BACK INTO MY READER’S BLOCK AGAIN. I refuse to live through that hell twice. pls save me. i just need something that grabs me by the throat on page one so i can keep my reading streak alive. HELP.
not new to #booktwt but looking for interactive mutuals! ⋆⁺₊❅.
— kaley , she/her , 17
— fav books: check & mate, mile high, restore me, book lovers
— fav artists: taylor swift, sabrina carpenter, olivia rodrigo, phoebe bridgers
♡ or ↻ if u wanna be mutuals!! ☃︎
@Khuze_Elikhulu bc deep down many men hate seeing their mothers survive what broke their fathers. they’d rather admire the man who left than face the shame of resembling him. it’s easier to idolise the coward who ran than respect the woman who stayed and did everything he couldn’t.
People need to stop treating women who don’t want kids like they’re missing a sacred life purpose. Some of us just don’t want to host a fetus and that’s fine.
@unniemara Same honestly. I care deeply about my friends but I don’t believe in forcing conversations. If someone wants to talk, they will when they feel safe enough to. I think giving people space without making them explain themselves is one of the simplest ways to show trust and care.