When I feel like giving up, help me know again and again that it is You ordering my steps all the time. Help me to be patient & to trust in You. May I never forget that I am not entitled to anything in this world, & that all I have and get, has come from You and You alone. Amen!!
@unisa I have been taken pillar to post for house now. I have a paper that I am writing at 12:30 SAT and I am out of the country, the Invigilator app is not allowing me access, I emailed my lecture he said he can’t help, I sent a WhatsApp to the Invigilator but no help.
Truth be told, some people are so irreplaceable. The things they do, the way they go extra miles to get things done for you, the way they always support, the kindness they show, the feelings they had for you; you may never experience it again for the rest of your life.
Gents normalize being financially honest with the woman you are dating to marry. Setting a standard that you later fail to maintain will not look good on you.
@K8necity_shawn Recognising the painful truth of unreciprocated efforts is a tough realisation. It's a brave step to acknowledge and prioritise your own well-being.
How to say NO without feeling guilty
1. Be firm and direct and stop beating around the bush
• “I’m sorry, I won't be able to make it for this appointment.”
• “I’ll pass this round, sorry about that.”
• “I’m tied down with something and won’t be able to do this. Sorry!”
And when you pray tonight…pray for the ability to set standards. Knowing your standards vs setting them, are two different things. You will get hurt because you constantly adjust your standards…simply because you’ve grown fond someone. Always keep your standards constant!