In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out when you’re upset; their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not to debate w you whether you should have been upset in the first place
sad truth is, not everyone you love will be able to love you the way you need them to, & maybe that's okay.
it doesn't lessen your worth as a person, but it's just a fact of life that we have to accept. they're simply not capable of offering the love you're looking for. +