Normal gay man, Christian, married 20+ yrs, MAGA, MAHA, constitutional traditionalist, LGB but not TQIA+, health & fitness. Live freely, take responsibility.
I'm loathe to block real people. I try to only block bots. Sometimes it's hard to tell when someone isn't following anyone I follow, only reposts with no posts of their own, and doesn't comment or reply or only has comments or posts from 2023.
Maybe I should just block and walk.
There's something that goes unspoken among guy friends and I'm breaking bro code by spilling it. There's always one secretly gay one. Everybody knows it but nobody talks about it. Not to each other, not to their wives. They would die before they let it get out. But they all know.
@mbrinkerhoff Scared? No, they're keeping their bro's secret out of loyalty and respect. It's not theirs to spill, so they don't. That doesn't need to be said or agreed on, it's just ingrained.
I haven't said anything but my sweet old boy went on ahead of me two weeks ago.
We had 17 good years together and in that time, he gave back exponentially more joy and love than we could give him. My heart will always be a little bit broken without him.
@qmodalinfidel It's a totally different dynamic with a group of straight guys and one out gay guy like me. That's most of my friend groups. But no, I have no sexual or romantic interest in straight guys. Interest has to be reciprocal or there's no point.
@ConnorNoro This is what happens when the teacher has a wine headache so she gives her kindergarten class construction paper and scissors to keep them occupied for the afternoon