when a woman is with a disabled or disfigured man everyone gushes over how “heartwarming” it is and that it’s “true love”, when a man is with a disabled/disfigured woman everyone mocks her for how “unfuckable” she is
i think what gets to me every time this convo comes around is that men not only don't understand the hot girl enough to get that her friend is doing what she wants them to, but also that they assume hot girls have the same disdain for their less attractive friends that men do