I'm such a "thank you so much" type of girl because I understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so I'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me !!
please teach your daughters that having a voice is more important than being nice. having a backbone is more important than being palatable. having standards is more important than being liked. and having self respect is more important than being chosen.
Dear career woman, please, when it is time to make a lifetime commitment, do not marry down.
If you want to enjoy both your career and your marriage, be careful about marrying a man you are significantly ahead of academically and financially.
As time goes on your career will grow. Your income will grow. Your exposure and responsibilities will grow. If your husband is unable to grow with you, that gap will eventually become a source of conflict in the marriage.
Do not make the mistake of thinking love alone will close that gap. You may live to regret it.
Choose a man whose ambition, capacity and mindset is greater than yours so you can always look up to him.
If you so desire to be an exception, then good luck to you.
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress.
You will see things that others do not.
You'll feel crazy.
Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.
Just learned a new word:
Eremition
(eh-ruh-mish-un)
The act of gradually fading from the lives of others, not out of malice, but a desire for solitude or renewal.
Burç Kadınlarının En Çekici Yönleri
Boğa Burcu
-Sabırlı, dayanıklı, güvenilir, becerikli olması
- Harika yemekler yapması
- Güzelliğine düşkün oluşu,
giydiğini yakıştırmayı bilmesi
- Kolay kolay ilişkilere girmeyişi ve kolay kolay kimseye yüz vermeyişi
- Bulunduğu ortamı güzelleştirmesi, bezemesi, süslemesi
- Tutumlu oluşu
- Dudakları, teni, çenesi, gamzeleri
- Sevdiği adamı yüceltmesi, desteklemesi, zenginleştirmesi
- Konukseverliği
- Doğal güzelliği