Y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person… and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. Ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.
I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don’t explain.. you just shift. That’s maturity mixed with grace.
I love friendships that influence me to be a better person. The one that will make me to be smarter, healthier and kinder. I love it when people have a positive impact on me.
Start checking yourself. Start correcting yourself when you’re being unnecessarily negative. Start minding your business when you realize you’re policing someone’s choices that do not have anything to do with you. Hold yourself accountable for goals you keep procrastinating on.
One thing I’ll never take for granted is how God has always been there with me, even during the times when I wasn’t praying or at my best. God is a faithful and loving Father and I am grateful everyday.
i love how women set secret deadlines for men like if he doesn't act right by july, i am out..meanwhile he's just vibing completely unaware he's just got two week left for his sentence