Padahal hetero yang bikin stereotype ‘cowok ngegym gay’, ‘cowok minum matcha boti’, ‘cowok makan seblak boti’, ujung-ujungnya hetero sendiri yang risih sama stereotype yang mereka bikin sendiri.
Klo orientasi seksual sesama tetiba berubah ke lawan gender, dianggap "sembuh." Klo orientasi seksual lawan gender tetiba ke sesama, dibilang "ketularan" main sama gay.
Cuma mau bilang:
Heteronormativitas itu konstruksi!
Seksualitas kita beragam & cair.
Biseksualitas itu NYATA!
never came out to my family because i didnt see a reason, straight people dont do it. why should i. either way i simply presented my gf to my dad once and he just went oh ok. anything more wouldve been awkward
you know what? maybe indonesia doesn't deserve to develop at all. maybe a dark age is what we all deserve. stone age mentality deserves an actual stone age
Psychology says some people avoid socializing not because they hate people, but because they can read them too well. They walk into a room and immediately sense the fake laughs, the hidden agendas, the performances. Their nervous system doesn't misread the signal, it just refuses to ignore it. Small talk feels like a tax they didn't agree to pay. Forced smiles cost them energy that takes hours to recover. They're not broken. They're calibrated differently. They don't avoid people. They avoid emotional labor that leads nowhere. When they do connect, it's deep, intentional, real. No masks. No games. Fewer friends doesn't mean loneliness. It means higher standards. That's not antisocial behavior. That's emotional intelligence.
Semoga semua rakyat dilindungi, kaum marginal dijaga. My heart goes out to every queer people in Indonesia. May all be safe, and everyone finds peace and comfort during these harsh times
Teman2 queer di PNJ saling jaga satu sama lain ya. Perkuat care network saat krisis spt ini penting banget. Kontakan satu sama lain (termasuk temen2 queer lintas prodi) bisa bantu bgt untuk navigasiin krisis + buat saling tau in case ada kekerasan lagi ke temen2 queer.