Intinya negur idola itu BEDA dengan nge hate!!! Kalo mereka salah?? ya wajib kita tegur, gak harus kita babying mereka terus okay. Because, at the end of the day, before we became fangirls, we were human beings !!
I donโt need an apology tbh. But I do want them to pause and think about it a bit. What it feels like to walk the earth as a woman, and to see such monsters roaming free and celebrated from our perspective. Thatโs all tbh. They have good hearts; being a good person just involves challenging yourself to grow and learn. None of us are born perfect, all-knowing or all-understanding.
Sharing an ARMYโs post from Weverse because I was moved by her love and sincerity:
โIโm feeling a bit sad today, so Iโd like to talk here, maybe because Iโve always felt comfortable enough with BTS to let my voice flow freely.
Iโve been in the fandom for many years. Iโve defended the members from many things that have happened, and Iโve understood and supported them when they decided to share their perspectives on various issues, including the fandom's own attitudes. I was all ears for you for years, always trying to understand you and change what you didnโt like about us.
Thatโs why today, Iโd like you to listen to me.
I joined this fandom because I always felt that BTS genuinely cared about listening to us, that your words and actions were authentic, and that I had found a place where I could feel understood. Iโve always believed you are good people, and I still do; otherwise, I wouldnโt be posting this.
I donโt blame you for the things CB has done. I find him despicable, and Iโve always felt nothing but disgust and repulsion toward him. He has done horrible things for which, obviously, no member of BTS is to blame, and which I am certain you would never condone. However, I canโt overlook the fact that giving him visibility through concert stories and photos feels like a huge mistake. Even if you donโt intend to, that content reaches thousands of people and ends up cleaning the image of someone who doesn't deserve it and who should be far away from the stage. I donโt believe that was your intention, but sometimes we do things that trigger consequences we don't foresee, even if it wasn't our goal. And itโs okay to ask ourselves if thatโs the image we want to project, if thatโs the effect we want to create.
I get it, nobody is perfect, and Iโm not saying otherwise. I think we all have our own contradictions, but I personally like it when people point mine out so I can grow and become a better person. BTS has said many times that youโd love ARMY to be the kind of fandom that doesn't put you on a pedestal, allowing you to make mistakes and learn from them.
I know you would love to live a normal life where everything you do isn't judged by thousands of people, but unfortunately, thatโs not the reality, and the decisions you make carry a lot of weight. If a person like CB continues to be respected in the industry and keeps filling stadiums, itโs because many people choose to ignore what he did and pretend it never happened. But it did happen, and none of it can be erased. And it hurts me deeply that you chose to look the other way. You are not to blame for what CB did, nor are you the only ones supporting him, but it hurts particularly with you because you are people I love and hold in high regard. Many people can do something I consider wrong, but it will always hurt more coming from a friend, my family, or you in this case. Not because I hold you to a different standard, but because I hold a deep affection for you. I suppose you can understand that feeling; it also hurts you when ARMY makes mistakes, and you also expect a lot from us because you know us and love us.
This doesn't erase all the support women have received from you, I do NOT believe any of that was performative. I believe in you, I believe you are good people, but I also believe good people can make mistakes, and I think you made one here. I know that you, as men, have no idea what we as women go through, and thatโs why Iโd like you to understand how painful it is for us to see people like CB continue to receive love and applause despite having caused so much harm to some of us. It feels so lonely and desolate, as if music mattered more than our lives and our integrity.โ (Cont)
Gak berharap kmu sama namu minta maaf, tp setidaknya ini jdikan pelajaran ya sayang..jngn lagi2 dtng ke konser atau sekedar ketemu sma orng modelan si cb sma usr itu..km gak lakuin kek mereka..tp klo km berada di lingkungan orng2 bgtu, kmu cmn dpet jelek ny ajjโ๐ป..
Ily namseok๐ซถ๐ป
Bukan berat jadi bangtan, tapi berat jadi manusia yang punya empati kak.
Gak hanya Bangtan, kita semua (yang merasa manusia) even warga sipil biasa ya harus melek sama isu kemanusiaan.
BTS beneran disambut besar besaran sama army indonesia, fanbase solo member juga ikutan bikin project buat di jakarta nanti๐
bakal jadi momen indah dihidup gw๐ญ๐
sehat sehat kita semua, ayo hidup lebih lama kita nikmati momen bareng bangtan desember nantiโจ
๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ-๐ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ท๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฅ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ง๐ ๐
ARMY Indonesia, halo! โจ
Dengan penuh antusias kami umumkan rangkaian ๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐ง๐ค๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐ผ๐๐๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ผ๐๐๐ผ yang akan menemani perjalanan kita semua, mulai dari sebelum konser, saat konser berlangsung, hingga sesudah konser berlangsung.
โ A Thread
[ARIRANG JAKARTA PROJECT]
Hallo, ARMY Indonesia!
Apakah kalian siap menyambut BTS di Jakarta? โค๏ธโ๐ฅ
Salam kenal ARMY,
Perkenalkan Minrang disini ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ
Minrang yang akan menemani perjalanan kalian mulai hari ini sampai Desember nanti saat kita semua bertemu BTS di Jakarta.