To speak against poor governance in Nigeria, be ready to fight with Nigerians too. It’s tiring.
Almost like 70% of the citizens love their life the way it is.
If you're neglecting your body, dodging difficult conversations, numbing yourself with endless scrolling, and letting small problems pile up until they feel big, don't be shocked by the fact that you feel anxious. You can't "avoid" your way into a peaceful life.
Everybody talks about cutting people off but nobody really talks about the grief that comes with having to stand firm on that decision knowing it’s not what you wanted but what was necessary for your well-being
If there’s one thing you owe yourself as a human being, it’s to understand yourself as deeply as possible. Self-knowledge ultimately saves you time… and unnecessary mistakes
I’m so independent. Sometimes to a fault. I just rushed to do something that my man wanted to help me with, and immediately he said “You don’t have to be the first born all the time. Let people make your life easier”. Triggered!!!