if you meet someone and they specify "tell me if something is wrong" instead of assuming you'll communicate by yourself. Red flag. Everyone that does this imo always ends up blowing up on you.
"Can we talk about something else, I don't understand this topic"
"yeah ofc what do you want to talk about"
"(hangout session we planned)"
*gets ghosted for a day*
okay. fuck you. i know you fucking hate me
"Can we talk about something else, I don't understand this topic"
"yeah ofc what do you want to talk about"
"(hangout session we planned)"
*gets ghosted for a day*
okay. fuck you. i know you fucking hate me