Whenever I see that someone enjoys being alone and likes their own company I automatically trust them more. I wouldn’t sit with anyone who can’t even sit with themselves.
I feel intense sadness over the Cornell rape situation especially because she did everything right. She reported it quickly and the campus police didn’t care, the campus admins didn’t care, she gave names and times and faces and they didn’t care
not to be all "i just got my social work masters degree so i know everything" but like our collective sense of what promotes child well-being is so far out of sync with both settled and developing research about what keeps kids safe and healthy
Everyday it's "who gon be boys?", calling men princesses, sassy man epidemic, etc. Then you say that women are looking for patriarchal dynamics in relationships and they look at you crazy.