@OceanTheWolf@VistiyelFolf@Gyoza_x3 it really isn't, a lot of paraphilias are created by trauma (eg my necrophilia is because i was spammed with gore and exposed to extreme violence at a young age, forced to watch snvff, etc)
that doesnt make it normal though and its still necessary to get help.
@HighOnSertaline@powhammers thats fine!! what isn't fine is the fact that you're interacting with them js to be ableist
you're allowed to not want specific people to interact but its not okay to be a huge dick about it.