life teaches you to stop giving people the benefit of the doubt when their actions already gave you the answer. believe people the first time they show you they don’t care.
Basically, an overthinker needs to date a great communicator. Someone who doesn’t leave you guessing, makes their intentions clear, and knows that reassurance can save you from creating 47 scenarios in your head. 😭
pick the patient one. the soft spoken one. the one who waits without pressure. the steady one. the one who calms your storms. the one who notices the small things. the one who makes you feel seen.
I’m in love with this sentence:
“Every pattern in your life repeats until you learn the lesson. The moment you choose differently, the loop ends and growth begins.”
to be loved is to be considered. to be considered is to be seen before you have to explain yourself. it is to exist in someone’s decisions even when you are not in the room. always love people on purpose!!!! love is intentional!!! and you consider them because you love them!!!!