it's crazy to me that i don't live in the south AND went to a liberal private school and yet we really were bringing up states rights during civil war discussion as if that wasn't historical revisionism
@thesecretduckk hmmmm yeah I’m like it’s found family, they are life partners of some sort because ultimately they are structuring their life around their coparenting partnership, but I don’t think that strong platonic bond is really a qpp?? it’s a life partnership for suresies
my comfort in the kitchen means that quickly chopping cucumber, tossing it with chickpeas, and dressing it with olive oil, yogurt, and spices is a "i don't feel like cooking" sort of meal. minimal dishes, no stove, less than 10 minutes of work.
i do feel like you can tell whether somebody knows how to cook or not by their likelihood of commenting on a "low effort don't feel like cooking video" with a comment like "wEll ThaT loOkS liKE cOoKinG tO Me"
how many dishes did i use? how long did it take to make? how long did it take to prep? what is the mental load of putting together this food? if i don't feel like cooking it's not that i don't want food, it's that i want the steps between thinking and eating to be few and
watching kimi ni todoke and getting distracted by how genuinely bad a friend jo is. i know he's meant to be an obnoxious side character, but i'm like kazehaya cut that bitch out of your life
@pinyakita it's feel victim-blame-y in the same way that telling a girl that she might get raped if she's wearing a certain dress or something. let me fly to the philippines and kick somebody's ass for this
im changing how i track and budget money and while i think it'll be good and more realistic it's like for so long my fallback has been "if youre spending money on non-necessities you're bad" and trying to switch to a system rather than SHAAAAME is a trip
i already knew this because i've read the manga and the resolution with him and ayane is perfectly handled, but i appreciate that it's the status quo throughout when there's a lot of high school media that would have a teacher like him passively perving on the high schoolers
watching kimi ni todoke and i appreciate how pin is not shown to be slightly interested in high school girls throughout the series like kurumi gets all charming with him and he's like "this girl is creepy as hell"