@tinybutchrage also men donβt see us as fuckable (especially if youβre not skinny) and so sometimes that means they treat you slightly better and sometimes it means they treat you much worse
heteronormativity is about assuming heterosexuality as the default not just sexually but culturally. when my wife and i are in public, we are instantly read as dykes. i gain no privilege by being butch. so why the fuck is my marriage considered heteronormative to so many of you