i have an elder gay couple as friends. they’re in their fifties. both are Black. no kids. been together 25 years. relocate cities every two years. have lived all over the world. big on philanthropy. big on art, design, culture, and technology. // they remind me—it’s possible!
Ironic because they don't see gay men as "real men" until it's time to pretend their patriarchal oppression comes from twinks and not their church or their fathers or their own shitty boyfriends