You're supposed to make other girls jealous of your woman, not make your woman jealous of other girls. Read that again until it makes permanent residence in your brain. She is not insecure for being bothered by your behavior with other women. She is not controlling, she is not dramatic, and she is not overreacting. She is a woman who chose you, committed to you, and gave you her trust, and all she is asking is that you protect it. When you are overly friendly, overly available, and overly attentive to other women, you are not being nice, you are being careless with the heart of the woman who gave you hers. And here is what most men fail to understand. Your woman should be the one other girls look at and think he really loves her. She should feel so secure, so chosen, so prioritized that no other woman could ever make her flinch.