Some men will say, "I'd destroy any man who treated my daughter like that," while treating someone else's daughter exactly like that. The disconnect will never make sense to me.
"She was going to a frat house, she knew what she was going to get."
Oh yeah?
If that's what frat houses are for, close them all entirely, immediately.
Most women aren't crying over a man.
They're crying over themselves, the effort they gave, the hope they held, the delusion they fell for,and the realization that love didn't reward them in return.