Girl to girl — work hard for your own & the life you want for yourself. Make sure no one can control you b/c you have no choice but to stay. Be your biggest bet📍
Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >
until you date a generous man (i didn’t say rich), you’ll understand that men love to provide for their women. they don’t wait to be asked, they genuinely find joy in doing it, they take initiative, they know your favorites and will order them.
i don't care how INDEPENDENT and self sufficient she might seem. treat her well. surprise her with things. take her out. court her. pursue her. she's only an alpha woman because she has to be, not because she wants to be