As a drag king and trans man PLEASE use he/him pronouns for me in drag. I dont care if my persona is feminine or if I'm doing a more "drag queeny" look, if you're confused just ask thanks.
Being a former people pleaser so shitty because now you gotta set boundaries thats never been established before n people think you being weird just because you’re not as accessible as before
Coming to the realization that im too empathetic to the point I excuse shitty behavior towards me and i need to fucking stop letting myself be walked all over because i feel bad for the other person instead of feeling bad for myself.
Today we saw systemic racism played out
We saw how these systems uphold white supremacy
We saw a president beholden to these systems
Now you know what we mean when we say the whole damn system is guilty as hell
Also some of you on this app are real vocal about certain issues, but so okay and silent with an asian contestant actively getting hatemails calling me a racial slur after an episode where i showcased an asian specific look for the first time in the competition.
The fact that Sigourney is willing to make Merrie an outifit after Merrie has been nothing but dismissive and disrespectful to her the WHOLE time. She's a better team leader than I could be.
what kind of off-stage dramatics the boulets 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 we care about: “ur not a leader” “ur in ur head” “u don’t even know how to get mad”
what kind of off-stage dramatics i 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 cared about: saint quoting a vine & dahli dabbing @ a critique
Literally they’ll be awful, judge mental, haze you, harass you, hold you to a higher standard than anyone else, and then when you call them out on it they’ll just gaslight you. It’s very real.