no shade to sabrina, but i think it's very disrespectful of her to compare dogs to men. what did those poor creatures do to you? i hope carpenters hold her accountable for disrespecting dogs.
My personal opinion is this is not progressive in any way. Its the same as girls making out for male attention. They wont do this with men because that would be cheating, but doing it with another woman isnt because sapphic relationships/sexuality arent taken seriously.
if someone calling their friends baby triggers you, then maybe you should ask your friends to do better. you can’t just go around and hate people with good peer relationship just because you and your friend group are shit.