girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone.
all of my friends have been blessed with babies this year, or early next year. watching my baby grow up with the same people I grew up with is a different kind of blessing.