-My money is my money. His money is our money.
- I want a man withba provider fetish.
- It is a man's duty to provide. As a woman, I'll contribute my little when I want.
- No dey chook eye for woman money.
- A woman will disrespect you if you ask her to carry financial responsibility
- Unless he doesn't love you, a man that loves you want to provide for you. He doesn't need your money.
It is better to be single or to marry an actual road side mad woman, than any woman with this belief. At least, the mad woman is actually mad. The ones above are choosing to be mad and deliberately obtuse. All of them are openly or covertly telling you that money is more important than their relationship with you. Nobody is more dangerous than a person like that.
If any of the points confuses you, I'll explain.