@orbitually jf it is something the avoidants cant control, and being disappointed for treated like a trash by them is also smtg others’ cant control. simply, invalidating what people feel for the sake of acknowledging such behavior is not it.
dont excuse your shit ass self behind whatever psychology term you’re using. im sorry for you but if your act cause harm to others, dont blame for hating you. feel pity for someone yang treating others like a trash is not it ;/
Guys.. no.. ☹️
Sebagai org yg pernah sampe bolak balik psikolog & psikiater minum obat gara2 seorang avoidant.. I now feel pity for them..
Mereka tuh sebenernya juga butuh dan mau mencintai.. but it scares them so much (bisa krn banyak faktor) and most of the time they already hates themselves.. it’s actually pretty sad..
Instead of blaming them (the avoidants) aku skrg lebih berusaha memahami kalo mereka cm berusaha melindungi diri mereka sendiri due to their traumas..
The best way to face avoidants is.. just let them be. Gaperlu coba untuk “memperbaiki” mereka dgn cara kasih cinta yg lebih banyak, it only scares them. Instead, set your own boundaries, self respect and expectations. Pahami bahwa bukan salah dan tanggung jawab kita bahwa mereka blm mampu buat meregulasi emosi dan komunikasi mereka scr baik. And find peace with the situation.
I hope both avoidants and their “victims” are healed and can develop secure attachment. May we find love that is gentle and soft. Sending hugs for everyone 🫂
@orbitually still doesnt change anything. if the avoidants cant empathize to others and act they way they act, then dont blame others for being upset of what theyve done.
@minenisty now should i read mark too? karna that label independen endingnya either ditelan perusahaan besar, ditipu managernya si david lee, ketahuan jd sarana penggelapan pajak, atau berhenti operasi before 3 tahun omg you got so many things to worry about instead of obsessing over renjun
entahlah, kenapa gerakan mahasiswa sekarang gak ada yak?
- BEM SI? gak ada
- BEM NUS? gak ada
- FMEI (forum mahasiswa ekonomi indonesia)? gak ada, sibuk agenda internal
- ISMEI (Ikatan senat mahasiswa ekonomi indonesia) ? apalagi
- Ormek? gaada pergerakan konkrit
panggil aku seorang pesimis, keknya mahasiswa udah gabisa diharepin lagi deh~
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