i think what kc meant when he said “when i think of black women, i think of you” went over y’all’s heads.
he didn’t mean HER specifically, that would be crazy he just met her. pretty sure he meant women like her, trying to reassure her that she’s checking all of his boxes. i don’t think anything about this is performative, if anything more men should be this vulnerable & reassuring to their significant others
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
Some of you take these jobs way too seriously 😭. Why are you snitching on coworkers, skipping breaks, coming in on your days off, and refusing to use your PTO or call out? Especially for jobs with little to no room for growth.
Everyone shut up I just learned a new word:
Eremition
(eh-ruh-mish-un)
The act of gradually fading from the lives of others, not out of malice, but a desire for solitude or renewal.