I have never just gave up on no someone i dealt with seriously . I tried & tried and wanted to fix certain things and when they didn't get fixed I LEFT simple ..Nobody is going to repeat themselves everyday nor are people going to wait forever to get what they DESERVE
I cut off 8+ year friendships, ended relationships… got family I don’t even speak to. I say this in the most respectful way, idc about losing anybody who doesn’t care about losing me. I’m 10 toes down behind ME, always
Pray about it. Your mood swings, your temper, your ego, your insecurities, your mindset, your self-love, your emotional state, your environment, your relationships, your lack of motivation, your lack of execution, your attraction to bad people. Pray about it all.
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, cause it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
I’ve grown so much as a woman. I look back at some of the mistakes I made in life & just shake my head because why did I allow certain things to play out the way they did…… I thank GOD for growth, wisdom, clarity of who I am as a woman.
Never disrespect yourself by begging someone for bare minimum. You'll never have to ask the right person for affection, attention, respect, loyalty, or love. Because you're worth it and deserve it. If someone doesn't see the value in giving you that — don’t try to convince them.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in ppl & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me way past my limit—but when I'm done, I'm done
GIRLLLL life goes on. you might end up a single mom. you might lose your job. you might lose a few friends. whatever it is, you have to pick yourself back up & keep it pushing. never feel embarrassed for the things you go through in life. we all go through things, people just never post the bad. baby girl stay ten toes down, YOU GOT THIS. i’m rooting for you 🫶🏽
healing makes you realize how some people never deserve to be around you, no matter what they mean to you, your health is important and whoever doesn’t bring you peace should stay away from you
You disrespect yourself every time you let something slide that doesn’t sit right w you, so I’ve buckled down on my boundaries as a form of self love. My time is valuable, my feelings are valid & those who love me will respect it.
once i’ve addressed the situation multiple times & it’s no changed behavior, I stop caring. It’s above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time💯.
Genuine women deserve a man who will buy them flowers, drop off lunch, fill up their tank, open their door, rub their feet and plan dates without them even asking
I’m so glad I’m growing up. I literally don’t feel no type of way about anybody anymore. I wish everybody the best. But for now on, it’s all about me & the life I’m trying to create for myself. 💓
Most relationships taught me the more chances you give ppl, the less they value you. They aren't scared to lose you bcoz they know no matter what, you won't walk away. Never let anyone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself and choose distance over disrespect.
im kinda glad i went through what i just went through… it opened my eyes, changed my vision, and made me focus up more.. its true when they say sometimes god have to break you because you were getting to comfortable… I see nothing but a bright future. thanks for nothing!