U are the most permanent thing in your life. prioritize you. choose you. your needs, your wants, your dreams, your feelings, your happiness, your peace. do not spend your entire life treating people who might be temporary better than you treat yourself.
not trying to start drama, just felt this needed to be said. this is something I personally struggled with as someone who also makes mistakes, and for the longest time felt I didn’t deserve a place in the church and don’t feel like this shaming behavior should be put on anyone.
church isn’t for perfect people... this judgmental mindset is what turns away so many people from it. we’re all young adults trying to figure ourselves out, none of us are perfect. church is a place we should all feel comfortable.