@lawlietchan__@kyoruyeye It was an misunderstanding with the English translation.
He meant that she was a fickle/inconsistent person, and the part about asking out and breaking up refers to events that happened six months ago.
@mesquesills@Manedwolves102@grapefruitism@XioEllie So instead of trying to restrict both bodies equally, something men would never accept anyway, wouldn’t it be better to give both of them the equal right not to be sexualized?
@mesquesills@Manedwolves102@grapefruitism@XioEllie But why should they? Not only that, but men’s chests have never really needed to be covered to be considered decent, so in practice, that’s not a true equivalence.
(Is your ideal model the Victorian era?)
@mesquesills@Manedwolves102@grapefruitism@XioEllie And anyway, the person in the post wasn’t even complaining about having to wear a shirt. They were complaining about having to cover their nipples with nipple covers inside their own home just because they live with their brother.
@mesquesills@Manedwolves102@grapefruitism@XioEllie Wdym? The problem here isn’t exposed breasts, but rather why one person’s bare chest is considered normal while another person’s is considered indecent simply because their existence is seen as inherently sexual. This even happens with public breastfeeding.
@mesquesills@grapefruitism@XioEllie Don’t teach the victim to cover up. Teach the abuser to know how to behave regardless of how much or how little fabric someone chooses to wear.
@mesquesills@grapefruitism@XioEllie The reason for covering up is that these ideas continue to persist, whether in more extreme forms or not, because the more you restrict a group’s rights, the more people will want to take away from them.
@mesquesills@Manedwolves102@grapefruitism@XioEllie Because of the sexism and misogyny that allow men to be seen shirtless without feeling ashamed, while women are expected to be ashamed of their own bodies because they’re supposedly “too lascivious” to be exposed.
@mesquesills@grapefruitism@XioEllie Do you understand how much it all depends on the context and on how mentally messed up someone can be?
Shouldn’t someone who has those kinds of thoughts seek help instead of expecting the victims to change themselves so they won’t be viewed that way?
@mesquesills@grapefruitism@XioEllie You know very well that the post isn’t about going around showing your private parts… and it raises the question: what exactly about a naked body can be considered sexual? Nudity itself isn’t inherently sexual.
@mesquesills@grapefruitism@XioEllie So women should cover their bodies with burqas for the sake of men who don’t know how to behave?
Notice how this usually isn’t a problem for other genders who are attracted to women.
What about people who are attracted to men? Should we cover them up too?
@kirynblog@Viihblioteca Pior que torna um pouco, sim.
Você não faz ideia da tristeza que é ter visto o processo de transição dos lançamentos da Barbie, ir de esperar ansiosamente por outro filme até torcer para que eles simplesmente enterrassem ela de vez junto com esse “novo” 3D (T-T)
@kirynblog@massafwra Um dos únicos pontos positivos que vejo nela, como é mais atual agora, é que ela consegue falar mais abertamente sobre questões mais sérias, tipo preconceito e inclusão de minorias. Ainda assim, a G3 de Monster High foi bem mais além em representatividade.
@_gabsznx@LeatherDreams27@arcogarea Às vezes, é mais fácil admitir que você só sente atração por uma genitália específica do que ficar inventando justificativas vagas para explicar por que você exclui especificamente pessoas trans da sua atração…
@_gabsznx@LeatherDreams27@arcogarea Sim, o problema não é você ser “obrigado a ficar com uma pessoa trans”. Ninguém está te obrigando a nada, nem disse que uma pessoa trans iria querer ficar com você. O problema é quando você vai ver os motivos dessas pessoas…