Still can’t believe my wife made us pay our rent way ahead of time and stocked up the house with food, prepaid meter unlimited, just before we started wedding expenses 😂 😂
When my sister wanted to buy land, she informed my parents.
My dad asked, “Is your husband aware?”
She said, “No.”
Dad replied, “Tell him first and get back to me.”
She never did.
Later, my dad found out through my brother and called her husband.
“Are you aware your wife bought land?”
The husband replied:
“No sir. But why would she do that? All the properties I buy are in both our names.”
My sister called my dad angrily:
“Dad, you want to scatter my marriage!”
My Dad answered her:
“You’re the one already scattering it.”
Twelve years later, she still thanks him. She said her friends had been advising her to buy property secretly.
"Men are initiators while women are reciprocators" BS
A healthy way to enter rela is to view it from the lens of how you want to love this person and keep pouring into them, not only having fantasy about what you expect from them to beautify your life and social media curation.
"Men are initiators while women are reciprocators" BS
A healthy way to enter rela is to view it from the lens of how you want to love this person and keep pouring into them, not only having fantasy about what you expect from them to beautify your life and social media curation.
The thread is beautiful. I understand her. She has an incredible way of writing and her delivery is smooth and laced with opium. You don't want it to end.
However, I understand the men's frustration in the quotes because the entire thread is solipsistic and that is not a love relationship. A healthy way to enter relationship is to view it from the lens of how you want to love this person and keep pouring into them, not only having fantasy about what you expect from them to beautify your life and social media curation.
Every girl wants to have fun.
Now here’s the thing…
The ‘lover boys’ can’t afford the outside life
The ‘outsiders’ can’t afford to love and stay committed to one person.
This is the closest to reality.. Deal with it!